Pages

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

In a solitary state of mind...

I don't know where to begin, except it's been almost three years since my ex-wife and I parted ways.  It changed my life in ways that I couldn't possibly imagine at the time.  But in time, I managed to gain "peace of mind" through solitude.  I became a better man, a better father to my children, and most importantly, it strengthened my faith in God in more ways that I couldn't even fathom, and still can't. The main important factor is that I have a "sense of self" that I didn't have before, or during my marriage.  It was liberating and sad to gain it when my split had taken place.  I wish I had this "sense" before I married, but hindsight is 20/20 and the past is the past now.  There's no reason to bring it up...only in the exception of not repeating mistakes from before.

Solitude has opened my eyes to a lot in this world and the best part is that I'm not afraid to be alone.

This is something I wanted to get off my chest for now.  Hopefully if there are others that read this blog, then I would like to let them know that life doesn't end with solitude, it actually begins.  Because the only person you have to deal with is yourself.  I still do it from day to day.  Everyday is always a new beginning learn, and experience...both good and bad.


Signing off.

My first blog of 2015.

Here's to many more...